EDITORIAL

Columnist Ellen Goodman, an "observer of social change," recently spoke in Cleveland to 400 women of the Mt. Sinai Women's Auxiliary, a 4000-member organization" committed to hospital fundraising. A recipient of the 1980 Pulitzer Prize for Commentary in Journalism, Ms. Goodman spoke of the "internal process of change" which the women's liberation movement has fostered in most American womenhow on a most personal level women have responded

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In the early 1970's, the average American woman could not identify with either the radical feminists or the fervent reactionaries; neither position seemed to offer a palpable alternative to her life. Now, however, many women have emerged onto what Ms. Goodman calls "the new middle ground," taking cautious and hesitant steps toward sorting out what they want. Seeking change safely, they cherish the best in their traditional past while advancing toward an exciting revision of their lives, many still frightened of what they perceive as the "uncertain replacements" which women's liberation can offer.

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Relying largely on the media's version of the typical feminist, the "new middle ground" woman fears that feminism tears people apart, disrupts the family, and may propel her life into total crisis, without meaning and without safeguards for the future.

For many the choices are risky and fraught with turmoil. These are the women who state, "I'm not a feminist, but...." The "buts" are endless: a belief in equal pay for equal work; sympathy for the displaced homemaker; a repulsion against violence against women, etc. Fear of change has caused many women to empathize with the women's liberation movement without calling themselves feminists and, more importantly, without taking steps to alter their lives. Ms. Goodman contends that most American women try to change without loss mainly by adding responsibilities. "Can we have it all?" she asks. "Yes," she replies derisively, "if we do it all."

Following the Russian model, a woman now chooses to work double time instead of sharing the load. Rather than demand that domestic chores be handled more fairly, that corporations create flexible working hours, or that government fund more day care centers, a woman will work partor full-time and still continue her family responsibilities as if nothing had changed. This choice is reassuring to the woman in conflict; she can manage personal achievement in the world and still care for others. Ms. Goodman reminds us of the stereotype of "supermom, who, a la Family Circle, sent her children to school with pumpkin-shaped cookies and handmade Halloween costumes., Another formidable stereotype has replaced "supermom, "again guaranteed to make you feel anxious and guilt-ridden if you don't live up to it: "superwoman!"

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Following the "new middle ground," according to Ms. Goodman, has produced "conflicted, ambivalent [women} looking for the nearest answers,' earnestly trying to appear "ambidextrous, yet symbolized by the image of clasping one's hands in prayer." The "new middle ground" woman is fearful of asking her husband of 20 years to change, afraid that if she shares her domestic sphere she will lose the only power she's ever been allowed to have and which provides her with a sense of importance. One source of this fear of change was revealed by a statement of a woman in the audience: "You know, I'm all for equal pay for equal work, but I still enjoy having the door opened for me. Women have been taught to value what men do for women, while what other women do somehow doesn't count. Recently, for instance, I was talking with a feininist friend at a picnic, both of us interested in what we were sharing. She abruptly left, however, when her husband came strolling by and motioned to her. At that moment 1 as a woman was unimportant; what mattered was the attention, security and comfort that flows from communication with a man.

As a feminist I reali.... "e women's movement has tapped fears which mot be smoothed away by ideology; they must be confronted in the light of our American heritage and cult. I upbringing. Perhaps the "new middle ground" is appealing in some ways to all of us, but we must be aware of the quicksand in that seemingly stable path.

Carol Epstein

Errata: Please note that last month's issue of WSW-Vol. 7, No. 12-was the May issue, not the June issue as indicated on the cover. We apologize for the confusion. Incidentally, if you haven't noticed, the real June issue (or, rather, the June/July issue) marks the beginning of our 8th year of publication.

On a similar note, WSW will not be publishing a separate July issue so that we can take time to reexamine and replenish ourselves. Please watch for the special August issue.

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